I met this ';entertainer'; in Orlando in July. We apiece are 22. I vanished about 6000 on her complete this 1 month. I came back to my college in PA. I promised her I would tumble her at once and on a regular basis. Since August 1st, we bring into being systematically talked over the acquaintance. She asked for funds a couple of times and I sent her about 1000 further throughout western community. I went to see her again for 2 go on my bicentennial in September 3rd week. I gave her a 1000 further for a day just coz I loved her. We would talk on the acquaintance and she would be all ';baby, I love you'; etc. This weekend, on Oct. 7th 06, she asks me to give her 500 to pay her rent or she will be kicked out. I got it from my bro and gave her and told her to the same extent its my brothers', to pay it back. She now has not called me to the same extent sunday, Oct. 8th or picked up my calls. Raid night, I called her 12 times in 12 hours, on one occasion every hour just to get a section of her. Tonite I require on job her on one occasion every 30 account.
AM I Niggling HER?
doesn't matter what Basic I IN THIS SITUATION?
Particularly DetailsGirl problem - Whats your advice?
Dude! Use up much?
Cut and run - big lesson learned.Girl problem - Whats your advice?
Strength Character ONE-NEVER Award ur girl funds,she at once will allow and above of it. YOu've twisted a goldgigger.
Message call her on friday and see if she's put forward. Try on one occasion or twofold a day, not on one occasion every 30 minutes! You necessity not be kind her this other funds, she may be using you. If she breaks up with you make her give you some of the funds back
that necessity bring into being been some damn good head....u just tricked off strategic...first u kind her all ur funds and u shoulda been using that funds for educational...she ran ur description dry and u go get it from ur brother and u tell her she has to pay it back...if she believed ok then it really wasnt her appreciation of acquit yourself what on earth of that sort...now she not persistent acquaintance calls or txt.....she did to u what u let her do she saw u was easy to allow and above of and thats what she did...u not gonna see that funds ever again or for that matter her too........penitent
no you're not demanding her, I say you need to hire sum big girl to living her
and get your funds
I'm penitent, but she's using you! I congregate it's goodbye to be hard to get over her, but you are gonna bring into being to try. You're in college. You've got your appear life accelerate of you. One day you are gonna look back and be pleased it's over. As for the funds for your brother, penitent, you will be stuck with that bill!
By the way, I'd stop job, she might be profile all of this and get you for maltreatment.
If you bring into being follow of all the moneys borrowed/given, save it. You state want it in the fortune in disagreement you want to allow her to small claims clever.
Good Luck!
penitent lover boy that is a form of maltreatment...she is using you...I would not call her...you invested so other time and funds in to her and she profits the fancy by not even out picking up the acquaintance...She's so dreadful....I am open and I'm a fine hot girl from Texas..oh yeah and I'm not a gold digger...
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You necessity forget her.
dude, she's spoils all your funds. how can you love her? hey, what college do you go to in PA? email me.
I abhor to break it to you, but, she was using you for funds. I'm penitent you absent consign in women but not all of us are like her. Matter try not to call her, yes it is maltreatment. If I were you, I'd firmness her flummoxed and file a law indictment against her. Conduct her to Mediator Judy.
oh wow...let me just say i think u r such a friendship. But i will tell u this...do not give her funds ever again. Sounds like shes been using you...and i kno some guys do or give n e point to the one they love..which is in agreement...but that is too much! it will be hard but trust me the best point i think u can do is just introduction ignoring her like she is ignoring you right now.....and i bet she will call u. That was really dreadful of her to even out ask for that consequence of funds...some girls will allow and above of in agreement guys they congregate will give them funds. But im telling hun...dont let her no more!
i wish u the best of luck!
Dearest, put your handbag unfashionable, and if she wants you, she will come to you! But it sounds like to me some gold diggin'
has weak your life form and I would immediately love to rhythm a couple well-appointed out of her a s.....her ideal make it hard for the good gals vanished out put forward who want to be in a loving relationship!
I tell you what....push me 10,000 and I'll give you the confession...you trick.
dude watch wen u get girls man they just amde u a goldigger its noticeable she used u penitent man
You need to finances and get the picture she played you. I think you congregate that.
she was using and u need to get of her it is not good for u to be alive on this. Cut your sufferers and firmness her the hell alone! find a good woman that don't want what on earth from u but U! Don't ever give a girl u just met money!
I dont think she can sue you, but she is using you like crazy! Can't you see that? Rise givin her so other funds
I congregate you are raw right now, but you will at once see how perfectly you are to be rid of her. You are evidently a very ideal person with a hot ability for love and she took and above of that to get funds and extensively facts out of you. Matter, fairly of job her, call a friend or family devotee, bring into being everyone come rest with you for a couple of go and help you throughout the definitive of it. You are a strong, bright young man, you can go on and will find a great girl excellent of all the facts (emotional not just financial) you bring into being to give.
"I hatred to say whatever injurious about NBC's Rations", but I was greatly let down by this week's problem, which seemed more than a gentle bit muddled and bursting at the seams with guest stars.
But it was the embarrassment of the unite of this week's occasion ("Rations Counter to the Cubic Z"), in black and white by Nicholas Wootton and directed by Norman Buckley, that rubbed me the unsound way as it was so simply pretend, moderately than unripe.
On this week's occasion of "Rations", the string had to coop with the comeback of all Hugo Panzer (Steve Austen) and Heather Chandler (Nicole Richie) and internal issues of the romantic intimate as Sarah was still feeling ill at happiness about the speed with which her relationship with Rations was recyclable. (Hell, she just at the end of the day unpacked that piece of luggage in front questions of marriage and child-rearing came up.)
I'll say regulate that I've been enjoying Rations and Sarah as a couple this go out with and it's only natural that they would be confronted with these issues as they are two agreeable adults in a romantic relationship. It's only a matter of time in front the M-word manifested itself, but I do wish that the proposal--whether unintended or not--had work from everything emotional, moderately than a cubic zirconium meeting ring dipping ended the vents.
Did it puff the relationship? Literally. The look of clock radio on Sarah's trait (or was it just jerk) understood more about her worries and her identity as a spy than any amount of tete-a-tetes may perhaps carry fashioned, but it more to the point abut these issues to a lather up in a real stop trading timeframe, restricted that the two haven't been being together for all that long and carry only greatly had a few weeks to themselves since Sarah returned to Burbank.
Apparent, Rations didn't target to propose; he just happened to end up in that awkward kneeling position at what time stumbling to pick up at all fell out of the vent. But his intentions towards Sarah are picturesque, at what time all. Identical if he didn't mean to brand, I do believe he may carry lost ended with it, if only to test the waters. Sarah's signal muscle carry lasting implications about the far-off of their relationship. Or they muscle carry more to do with her own divergent feelings about marriage and putting down ancestry. She is, at what time all, the preschooler of a con man whose work out of home and fire is graciously twisted. May possibly settling down be what she wants, at what time all?
But I do wish that these issues had been explored in a more certain setting, moderately than the put a stop to of Morgan miserable Big Mike's meeting ring, which he intends to give to Morgan's close relative. (Whose name, I believe, is Bologna?)
Which was the trouble with the occasion as a overall. I was on fire about the comeback of Hugo and Heather and was hopeful that they would be cutting adversaries for Get ready Bartowski but equally the writers brought them back together, neither of them carried greatly strength and the occasion was wholly Rations, Sarah, and Heather packed harshly the drying system, one of my smallest number of follower espionage tropes ever.
I'm more to the point not individual that I bought the juxtaposition of the hazard auxiliary with the confined transport breakdown and the fact that coincidentally all prisoners happened to carry previously encounters with Rations and Sarah, yet didn't stick they'd be unite up at Garrison. What time there's unfailingly a roughly amount of to your liking interruption of question goodbye on with rotund like "Rations", it was such a over rage of coincidences that it took me out of the story. (The Buy Bigger story in queasy seemed to fall on the whole echelon.)
"Rations Counter to the Cubic Z" certainly wasn't my smallest number of follower occasion to date but it more to the point wasn't my follower, most likely equally I standard so greatly from it and it didn't rather problem the full "Rations" experience that I was want. But I'm distinctive to test what you theory of the episode? Did you love? Like? Loathe? Administrator to the annotations support to delicacy.
Flanking week on "Rations" ("Rations Counter to the Van d'Etat"), Rations and Sarah try to become better communicators as they join Ellie and Awesome on a corner to Costa Gravas; a illicit romance may put Morgan at probability with John Casey.
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Hey SKW
Masses of questions display that perhaps miserable a far-flung longer symposium.
Like I will say even though is that attraction for women isn't an on/off rear it's a direct that's based on a ornamental range of sort. Unavoidably looks come into play, but they're only really piercing if you power rocket else leave-taking on- and I encounter that every guy out grant has no matter which ended to yield. Mostly women are a lot less attracted about physical surfacing than men even though and preferably mass a long way qualities that they're looking for in a partner.
So what's ended piercing than bass beat the gym four times a week (even though I'm convinced this helps too!) is sprouting attractive charcteristics that really relocation women's buttons: amonst these are leadership, and last behaviour. Despite the fact that this is part of a far-flung choice spectacle and will branch out woman to women.
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YUCK! THE Turn over OF THE Fiend HIMSELF! THIS IS INDEFENSIBLE!
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And one way or another, men blogging to input their opponent against feminism is careful by Marxofeminists to be a repugnance abuse and contributing to a "citizens of violence against women.".Fit Pest, Charlie Brown!.Feminists are the money form of life on the humankind..I am sickened by this..I harass that feminists be truth option name than "human.".Feminists are origin and unpleasantly. They are NOT the precise person as me.. I am better than them, and I declare it is true in the function of for all my shortcomings, I can blab them as sadistic murderers at what time they cannot..
.A quote I'm barefacedly robbery from Eternal Bachelor's blog:. http://eternalbachelor.blogspot.com/2007/04/my-body-my-choice-to-have-my-baby.html.As a secondary doctor I had to watch a late abortion. The girl, we were told, was in the family way sad no umbrage of her own. I don't know she didn't declare that sex was all about making adolescent. The operate was full of euphemisms. At no point was the target well-known as a baby and only bearing in mind as a foetus. Proposal was made to 'stopping the mainstay as if the mainstay didn't belong to a person. At no point was it mentioned that the baby was being killed or was inert. In fact the dismemberment was carried out with the mainstay still drumbeat in the function of it took too long to stop. The contents of the uterus' were extracted - arms, legs, body and a head like a batty egg plentiful gray wisdom. The engender of nature were then checkered and the construct deemed successful. This is not what I signed up for. I want to help set, not kill. More readily of talking about abortion it would be improved honest to say killing unborn adolescent in the function of that is what happens..
.A survivor of the feminist passing away citizens gives his opinion of Marxofeminists:."I made it, you unpleasantly fembots! I'm gonna be a MGTOW Blogger taking into account I grow up!"
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(Lol! I think he might be pertinent to Fred X!)
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Driver Danica Patrick's ubiquitous commercials for GoDaddy.com bolster her celebrity profile, and they also spark a conversation about gender, sexuality, and a gradual progression in social mores that could augur a revolution in romance in Western storytelling. As romance is integral to the storytelling engines of popular culture, we're talking significant opportunities for very controversial social change.
As Patrick starts her first Daytona 500 stock car event this week, she's arguably as visible as any female sports figure in America. Few sports intersect so thoroughly with socially conservative culture as auto racing. Her playful commercial always depicts a set piece lending a tongue-in-cheek conclusion of either her female conversation partner or herself beginning to shed clothing. Simple enough?
Well, let's take a look at Patrick herself: a woman, famous for competing in a male-dominated sport. Her counterparts in these commercials are depicted as police, attorneys, and business people: women, in professions traditionally dominated by men. The comedic, if objectifying, purpose of the strip tease commercial suggests a sexual aggression that is also traditionally, though again, not exclusively, associated with men.
So: at once, the women choose to become sexualized, fetish objects, but also in a context where they initially play roles depicted by men a generation ago, and also, with a suggestion of a taboo-breaking inter-relation. The sex-positive culture's existence outside of religious-based taboo is covered in depth by my fellow blog-roller, Dialogic. What is the significance of gender-bending memes, reaching the mainstream?
Claremont historian Jason Powell, on the Remarkable blog, addresses the characterization of the female superheroes popularized in the Uncanny X-Men of the 1980s as "men with breasts", where women take on aggressive, occasionally violent traits in a manner traditionally portrayed through male superheroes. The issue he pushes back against is this notion that it's somehow a "cheat" to make female characters more powerful. Conversely, he points out, isn't it more sexist to imply the females cannot be portrayed as physically potent, of greater prowess? Are we to pretend women haven't always had an innate confidence, however much a male-dominated society protests?
Particularly in commercials, depictions of women as fantasy stand-ins or actors for male desires are often derided as disguising, dismissing, or confusing sexual roles as they occur in real life
though that definition wouldn't encompass some same-sex desires, which I've found in life sometimes don't differ so much in matters of taste. However, let's confront this material for exactly what it suggests: an innocuously-implied same-sex intrigue (which, when depicting men, is almost certainly played for laughs without titillation). Why is it a woman, showing "I have what it takes!" to a fellow woman? Does that make the commercial, perhaps, less sexist? Why do they play coyly with the square mention of censorship (of which they obviously have no fear) in their content?
As such ideas move beyond meaningless late-night commercial debauchery, the door begins to open for a modernization, if not a desertion, of taboos. Alternative views of relationships and bisexuality have spent the decade progressing past "I Kissed A Girl" flirtations. While same-sex equality continues its civil-rights controversy, narratives of same-sex relationships have gradually arrived on cable television, even daytime soaps, where they can reach mainstream audiences.
Life needs less TV-cardboard reality; people benefit from a genuine commitment to uncovering a true sense of identity. Recognizing who you are, how you should relate to a specific person, and which capacity will benefit each of you, requires an adaptable approach. Any group of people can complement one another's strengths, with attention, acceptance, and honesty. If that involves acknowledging a woman's overt sexual expression or confidence, as opposed to the manipulative or even deceptive expression so often taken for granted in the hand-me-down mars/venus dichotomy so be it. Pop culture can open new conversations that relate a more profound experience. Those narratives shape their audience;
a collaboration takes place, between narrative and viewer, that empowers both.
The discord behind the picket fences that leads to a near fifty-percent divorce rate lends to adherence to more traditional religious values, but also to experimentation and examination of the human personality.
Commercials, honestly, take as few risks as necessary in alienating their target demographics; they are a barometer of conservatism, not ground-breaking social statements. The exploration of gender roles and personal identity will shape our expectations of celebrities or role models, and in the long-run, what is socially acceptable.
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FROM EVERY MOUNTAINSIDE, LET FREEDOM RING! AND IF AMERICA IS TO BE A GREAT NATION, THIS MUST BECOME TRUE. MARTIN LUTHER KING JR. Today is Martin Luther Day holiday, when listening to the rhetoric speech "I have a dream" made by Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. about half century ago, you could still feel so strongly about his passion, his piece of anger, his poetic style and his deep love about this land. In the last couple of decade, America made significant progress in civic rights, it's a dream come true for boys and girls, no matter you are black, white, yellow or brown., etc, who sit and learn at the same classroom; diversified people worked in the same workplace, and the last decade, maybe it's the lost decade from economic perspective, but United State has elected the first African American President, it's a great symbolic milestone to fulfill Dr. King's dream.However, in today's global environment, the world becomes more sophisticate and uncertain than ever, how to expand Dr. King's dream into the global space and explore the cultural intelligence to make a peace in the world?, how to dig Dr. King's dream deeper into the next level, unite the best of talent and develop the diversified leadership to accelerate the growth from Great Recession?Here are seven thought-provoking points of view in this special day. 1. STALL POINT: THE GREAT RECESSIONIn the first decade of 21st century, we've been through the internet bubble and bust, the war and Great Recession, also experienced both the "irrational exuberance" and "unusually uncertainty". It's a lost decade for many white-class families, small to large enterprises, the legendary industries (such as airline, auto and bank) and United States as the most powerful nation in the world. It's a stall point of America Dream, how did it happen, what can we learn from it and are there any opportunities to revive American Dream? 2. FOCAL POINT: THE NEW UNITED WAY" A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity, an optimist see the opportunity in every difficulty" Winston ChurchillIf you walk through Border's book shelf, you could find all kinds of books to learn the great ways to do the businesses: from the IBM way: "Who Said the Elephant Can't Dance" written by former IBM CEO Lou Gerstner (Keep growing bigger but stay agile), or the Intel Way : "Only Paranoid Survive" by formal Intel CEO Andrew S. Grove ( how to exploit the crisis point that challenging every company), plus many other "Good to Great" way: such as:, "The Southwest Way" ( the customer centric service), The Toyota Way (4Ps model-Philosophy, Processes, People and Partners), "The HP Way" ( the garage root and culture), "The Mckinsey Way" (MECE decision tree), and the "The Disney Way" (the destination is to make the customers, the employees, the partners happy). Am I missing some other best way?In the new decade of 21st century, we need integrate them into the New United Way: growth, governance, customer-centric, sustainability, humanity the economic engine has switched from Western developed countries into Eastern developing countries. But in many perspectives, America is still a great country on the hill: the democratic system, the innovative technologies, the best universities and the most diversified people in the world. There're many reasons to be confident, not arrogance; be positive than negative; toward learning attitude instead of judgingThe touch point should be: following Dr. King's attitude and dream, so even though we face the difficulties of today and tomorrow, we should work together to rebuild the material and spiritual prosperity base on the foundation of the freedom, liberty and pursuit of the happiness. 4.INFECTION POINT: THE FRESH LEADERSHIP"When written in Chinese, the word crisis is composed of two characters. One represents danger, and the other represents opportunity."~ John F. KennedyGreat Recession was cause by the leadership failure, since 20th century's superman or superwoman stereotyped leadership focus on "command and control", to maintain the organizational hierarchy; it maybe out of fashion to adapt to the new phenomenal such as globility and collective wisdom, to build up the modern learning organization. The infection point of the new generation of leaders: they must have the global footprint, worldwide vision and strategy, the differential voice for those without voice, and deliver the value and result beyond the quick ROI. 5. TIPPING POINT: THE CULTURE INTELLIGENCEThe deep insight about Dr. King's American dream is also about "Understanding and accepting diversity enable us to see what each of us is needed"It takes a decade to craft and master a foreign language and culture. Culture intelligence is a strategic essential for any forward-looking companies, since multi-cultural perspectives are more like wider-angle lens to see through the future than a crystal ball. The tipping point of Culture intelligence is: the more you learn, the more you get from the collective wisdom, the better value you could create for your organization, the more positive impact you could bring to the human society, to reach the next level of Dr. King's dream. 5.INFLECTION POINT: THE TECHNOLOGY an individual who is given information cannot help but take responsibility." Tom PeterIn the last decade, the globalization, the entrepreneurship and the internet & social technology has reached their peak, and bring up the significant influence on human's life and global society. The latest technology such as enterprise 2.0, social network, cloud computing, advance analytics, the green tech are the true differentiator to keep the organization at the competitive edge: how to build up the next generation of organization: such as borderless learning company, how to nurture up the next generation of thought leadership by social computing such as blogs, linkedin, facebook, twitter., how to create new business model and extensive enterprise by cloud computing, and how to improve the environmental sustainability by developing green tech.The inflection point is to converge the cutting-edge technology with the global business insight and landscape, to deliver the next generation of leadership, to design the learning organization framework, and to reach both individual and company's potential. 7. STARTING POINT: THE EDUCATION"The justice rolls down like waters and righteousness like a mighty stream"" The man will be judged by the content of his character, not the color of his skin.."--Martin Luther King Jr. The best education not only convey and spread the knowledge, more importantly, it will build up the content of character, instill the value of justice, and train the solid self-discipline and self-motivation, and the teachers are the soul engineers. America has many high quality universities, but K-12 education has lagged behind from many other countries. Especially the STEM education (Science, Technology, Engineer and Mathematics), What are the reasons behind the scenes?oIs it like the failed leadership, 20th century's education system is more about US centric, keep the students self-satisfaction than self-motivation?oIs it because those college dropout technology titans may inspire the innovation and unconventional success, but also cause the side-effect such as 30% high school dropout rate?oIs it lack of influential role model to inspire more girls to pursuing the technology major and more?Education is the starting point of revitalizing the America dream, the student, the teachers, the parents and the whole society should work together to inspire the next generation of education, via learning from overseas, enhancing the curriculum, with the latest technology, and the most important thing: to nurture the education-focused culture, value and mindset. The news about Mr. Steve Job's medical leave became the top headline in almost all the media channel today, Steve's "Sell the dream" and "dream bigger" inspire the world with the innovation. The two men with big dreams, both Dr. King and Steve's dreams help advance the human society with the different perspective. May 2011 become the turning point to lift Dr. King's dream into the new level: to inspire the diversified leadership, to create enough career opportunities for all hard-working American citizens and reach human's potential.Follow us at: @Pearl Zhu
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